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August 03, 2012


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Susan Getgood

Forgive me for just getting to this now -- but you know how my heart aches for you. I remember Carmie and Wabby and know how special they both were to you.

RA, Isis & Nanuk

We came by to paw our respects, softest husky wooooos,

RA, Isis & Nanük

Michelle @ My Tail Hurts From Wagging So Much

Sorry for your loss.

Fur Everywhere

We are so very sorry for the loss of your beautiful Pandora. She's a beautiful angel. Many purrs and hugs coming your way <3
Carmine, Milita, and their human Sierra


What a beautiful long life Pandora had, what a beautiful soul she was. Fly free gorgeous girl, play hard at The Bridge. There will be many friends there to greet you.

Love and rumbly purrs to your family

Oliver, Gerry & Mungo

Laura & Taffy

We are so sorry for the loss of your beoved girl, Pandora. She was a sweet, beautiful girl. Comforting hugs and soft purrs to you. Run free, Pandora!

Laura & Taffy

Samantha, Clementine & Maverick

Lots of purrrs and prayers to you all!!~ We are so sorry to hear about Pandora!!
(((((WARM kitty hugs))))))),
Your TX furiends,

The Florida Furkids and Lexi

(((Hugs))), purrs and prayers to you. It's always so hard to let a furbaby leave but it is also the most important and caring gift you can give them.

The Florida Furkids and Lexi


Yvonne, I'm so sorry to hear about the loss of your Pandora. She was a gorgeous kitty, who will never be forgotten.

Lee County Clowder

Run free, Pandora. May you enjoy whole new realms of grumpiness at The Bridge. Sending comforting purrrrrss to gentle headbuttss to everyone.

Eric and Flynn

We are very sorry that Pandora has gone to the Bridge. We send you our comforting purrs.


Those long lives make it hard when they go. One begins to think they will live forever. She will be young and carefree at the Bridge. Purrs and hugs from our house.


We are sending you soft head-bumps and purrs.
KC & Kitties

Amber DaWeenie

Pandora lived a very long, full, and I'm sure a very happy life with you. It doesn't make losing her any easier though. Her memory will live on in your heart. We're very sorry for your loss and understand how much she'll be missed.

Oskar & Pam

We are praying for you during this tough time.

Nubbin wiggles & hugs,
Oskar & Pam

Morgen Pittman

Sending purrs & condolences from all of us at Purrchance To Dream

Texas, a cat in New York

Awww... We are so sorry to read that. Pandora was a beautiful kitty!
Many human hugs and kitty purrs from us to you


Sending you lots of purrrrs. So sorry to hear about Pandora.

hugs, Max, Bugsy, Knuckles and HH

Sue Brandes

Very sorry for your loss. What a beautiful kitty. My thoughts and prays go out to you.

Teri and the cats of Curlz and Swirlz

Fly Free, Pandora and may the treasured memories soften the sadness in Tom and Yvonne's hearts...I love what Yvonne said about 'And, she is telling me to give another kitty the same chance she had... in time. In due time'... Yes, that is what she would be saying, having found her forever home with you...

This is one of my favorite remembrances of a beloved pet, and I hope that it will help in your healing, too...

Living Love

If you ever love an animal, there are three days in your life you will always remember…

The first is a day, blessed with happiness, when you bring home your young new friend. You may have spent weeks deciding on a breed. You may have asked numerous opinions of many vets, or done long research in finding a breeder. Or, perhaps in a fleeting moment, you may have just chosen that silly looking mutt in a shelter – simply because something in its eyes reached your heart. But when you bring that chosen pet home, and watch it explore, and claim its special place in your hall or front room – and when you feel it brush against you for the first time – it instills a feeling of pure love you will carry with you through the many years to come.

The second day will occur eight or nine or ten years later. It will be a day like any other. Routine and unexceptional. But, for a surprising instant, you will look at your long-time friend and see age where you once saw youth. You will see slow deliberate steps where you once saw energy. And you will see sleep where you once saw activity. So you will begin to adjust your friend’s diet – and you may add a pill or two to her food. And you may feel a growing fear deep within yourself, which bodes of a coming emptiness. And you will feel this uneasy feeling, on and off, until the third day finally arrives.

And on this day – if your friend and God have not decided for you, then you will be faced with making a decision of your own – on behalf of your lifelong friend, and with the guidance of your own deepest Spirit. But whichever way your friend eventually leaves you – you will feel as alone as a single star in the dark night. If you are wise, you will let the tears flow as freely and as often as they must. And if you are typical, you will find that not many in your circle of family or friends will be able to understand your grief, or comfort you. But if you are true to the love of the pet you cherished through the many joy-filled years, you may find that a soul – a bit smaller in size than your own – seems to walk with you, at times, during the lonely days to come. And at moments when you least expect anything out of the ordinary to happen, you may feel something brush against your leg – very, very lightly. And looking down at the place where your dear, perhaps dearest, friend used to lie – you will remember those three significant days. The memory will most likely be painful, and leave an ache in your heart. As time passes, the ache will come and go as it has a life of its own. You will both reject it and embrace it, and it may confuse you. If you reject it, it will depress you. If you embrace it, it will deepen you. Either way, it will still be an ache.

But there will be, I assure you, a fourth day when – along with the memory of your pet – and piercing through the heaviness in your heart – there will come a realization that belongs only to you. It will be as unique and strong as our relationship with each animal we have loved, and lost. This realization takes the form of a Living Love – like the heavenly scent of a rose that remains after the petals have wilted, this love will remain and grow – and be there for us to remember. It is a love we have earned. It is the legacy our pets leave us when they go. And it is a gift we may keep with us as long as we live. It is a love which is ours alone. And until we ourselves leave, perhaps to join our beloved pets – it is a love that we will always possess.

~ Written by Martin Scot Kosins, Author of “Maya’s First Rose” ~

Fenris, Socks & Scylla

We are so very sorry that it was Pandora's time to go to the Rainbow Bridge. Purrs of sympathy for her loss we knows you will miss her very much.

George the Duck and the black cat Hotties

Fly free of pain and care, Pandora.
We're so sorry for your loss Tom and Yvonne. We're sending ducky hugs and purrrs.

Fuzzy Tales

We're so sorry to to read that Pandora has crossed, and are sending soft purrs for comfort.

Kitty kisses and (((hugs))).


Hannah and Lucy

We are so sorry to hear of your Pandora going to Rainbow Bridge - 20 years is a long, long time to have loved her. We know you will have many happy memories of her and in time you will smile when they come into your mind. Take care.
Luv Hannah and Lucy xx xx


I am so sorry to hear that your sweet Pandora has left for the bridge. I know you will miss her. Keep her close to you in your thoughts and heart. She will always be with you.

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